How Do I Know If It's Real Love????

Hey m bak wid one more post on LOVE... bt dis tym it is an effort to answer some of the comments posted by ma beloved frnz on d previous post ..

"LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT..." 

Love- to starry-eyed romantics its a mysterious visitation that seizes you, a once-in-a-lifetym feeling of sheer ecstasy. Love, they blive, is strictly an affair of the heart, sumthn dat cannot b undrstood, just experienced. Love conquers all and lasts forever.... And no doubt abt it, fallin in love cn b a uniquely beautiful experience. BUT WOT IS REAL LOVE?????

Love At First Sight??   ..... Movies, buks, TV shows wud hav u blive dat love at first sight lasts forevr. Granted, physical attractiveness is usually wot makes 2 pepl notice each odr in the first place. But wot is it dat one "loves" wen realationshp is but a few hours or days old?? Is it nt d image dat person projects?? Really, u don knw much abt dat person's thots, hopes, fears, plans, habits, skills, aspirations, life style etc.. You hav met only d outer shell, nt "the person- his heart".

                                   Furthermore, outward appearances cn b deceiving. The glittering wrappings of a gift tells u nthn of wot's inside. Infact d most elegant wrappings may cover a useless gift.

Wot a mistake it is, den, to fall 'in love' wid the way sum1 luks- n ignore wot d person is inside. 

Den v hav sum ppl passin judgements - " Jus listen to ur Heart, U'll knw wen its real love" I wud say BULLSHIT!!!!!! 

The tragedy is that 1000's of couples evry year marry undr dis illusion of bein 'in love', only to find out latr dat dey hav hav screwed up dre lives n ended as losers...!!! 

Infatuation leads dese poor ppl into shattered marriages like lambs to the slaughter.

And accordin to Bible " The heart is the most deceitful thing there is" ( Jeremiah 17:9)

BUT Bible also talks abt d LOVE dat nvr fails.... So its u who has to differentiate b/w infatuation n love...

Infatuation is counterfeit love. It is unrealistic n self-centered but love is bein selfless n givin.. Wen u r really in love, u care jus as much for d odr person's welfare n happiness as u do for ur own self...

       

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The loving are the daring.....

The loving are the daring.....

The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.

These are definitely not ma words but yea ma thots are similar to this. Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and stretching the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools; favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything upside down.

U start liking a person, whom may b in the beginning u hated the most or u thot to be a very high headed person wid all dat extra bit of ego, pride, jealousy n all.... but slowly or sumtyms in d time it takes d eye to blink or d heart to beat u start lovin the person more then any1 on this earth. U hav dat special feelin for that person, u go to any extent to make that person happy and u hav a craving desire for that person, his love... Ur wants, desires, emptiness, longing everythn is answered.. Ur heart has reasons for lovin dat person, the reasons that one is nevr gonna understand other then u, n sumtyms evn u don understnd dese reasons, bt u r tend to follow ur heart blindly and selflessly. May b dis is the reason ppl say love is blind. Actually we tend to love coz we find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place in ourselves for those who love us. Love is sumthn dat gves meaning to our life, our existence. U adore the person the most.

According to Muda Saint Michael, Love is like a mustard seed;planted by God and watered by men.

Love is very delicate bt it makes us very strong. We start growin wid d person as d relationship grows. Its a special bond that cn't b seen bt only b felt.

Many civilization came n went, many cultures developed n ended, many centuries passed but the essence and meaning of love remains unchanged n eternal. Love is a beautiful song, sung by 2 hearts, at tyms the they go out of rhythm that is wen their love is undergoin test and those who finally comeout wid a beautiful n melodious song are the ones in true love. Love makes life worthwhile.

People say dat love happens only once in a lifetym but i believe we can fall in love as many tyms as we want or it hapns to us. Love is not sumth dat v cn measure. Its a feeling that cn emerge for ny1 at ny point of tym. Sum find their ultimate soul mate but sum are left out in the search forevr. They meet alot many ppl who stir their heart bt itz not important that they shud stay in ur life. God has a master plan for all of us and he moves ppl in and out of our lives, and each person leaves a mark in our life. Their each touch gives us a memory -gud or bad, but that is for evr. We learn thru this process.We are made up of bits and pieces of these memories. That makes us an individual who is loved and learns the meaning of love. U cn fall in love wid any1 nywher... it cn b in a class, ur neighborhood, ur frnz circle, a journey or may b in a place full of strangers lik bus, train or may b in a metro!!! U nvr knw wen n how u r gonna meet ur soulmate.

Its the communion of souls. So here it goes for that special person:

Love is d gr8est feelin i evr had

D feelin i learnt frm u,

Love is wot I feel for u

N wot u make me feel;

Each n evry day,

Love is d smile, i c on ur face;

Love is d song, I hear frm u;

Love is d greatest emotion, u evr made me feel;

N dats wot keeps us goin strong,

I love you wid all ma heart,

body n soul,

So wen ma eyes meet urs,

I jus wanna say-

I love u wid all ma heart,

N hav poured ma entire soul into u,

Right frm d very start.