"LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT..."
Love- to starry-eyed romantics its a mysterious visitation that seizes you, a once-in-a-lifetym feeling of sheer ecstasy. Love, they blive, is strictly an affair of the heart, sumthn dat cannot b undrstood, just experienced. Love conquers all and lasts forever.... And no doubt abt it, fallin in love cn b a uniquely beautiful experience. BUT WOT IS REAL LOVE?????
Love At First Sight?? ..... Movies, buks, TV shows wud hav u blive dat love at first sight lasts forevr. Granted, physical attractiveness is usually wot makes 2 pepl notice each odr in the first place. But wot is it dat one "loves" wen realationshp is but a few hours or days old?? Is it nt d image dat person projects?? Really, u don knw much abt dat person's thots, hopes, fears, plans, habits, skills, aspirations, life style etc.. You hav met only d outer shell, nt "the person- his heart".
Furthermore, outward appearances cn b deceiving. The glittering wrappings of a gift tells u nthn of wot's inside. Infact d most elegant wrappings may cover a useless gift.
Wot a mistake it is, den, to fall 'in love' wid the way sum1 luks- n ignore wot d person is inside.
Den v hav sum ppl passin judgements - " Jus listen to ur Heart, U'll knw wen its real love" I wud say BULLSHIT!!!!!!
The tragedy is that 1000's of couples evry year marry undr dis illusion of bein 'in love', only to find out latr dat dey hav hav screwed up dre lives n ended as losers...!!!
Infatuation leads dese poor ppl into shattered marriages like lambs to the slaughter.
And accordin to Bible " The heart is the most deceitful thing there is" ( Jeremiah 17:9)
BUT Bible also talks abt d LOVE dat nvr fails.... So its u who has to differentiate b/w infatuation n love...
Infatuation is counterfeit love. It is unrealistic n self-centered but love is bein selfless n givin.. Wen u r really in love, u care jus as much for d odr person's welfare n happiness as u do for ur own self...
